Post by Cole Geass on Apr 14, 2017 22:05:01 GMT
I know this is beating a dead horse, and supportfortheshort has already posted articles about this on his site, but doesn't it suck being labeled as creepy? You can have the same charisma, mannerisms, and personality as a person of average or greater height, but because you're short, you're automatically creepy. I was called creepy a lot in school. It pretty much destroyed my dating confidence. Once a girl calls you creepy and tells another girl, you're done for. There's no worse insult to a guy than being called "creepy." All my friends were taller in school and (surprisingly) they always had girlfriends. When I'd flirt with girls, or use my charm, I'd often get denied and get called creepy. It's been documented on numerous accounts that a girl labels any attention she doesn't want as "creepy" so naturally the same flirting, charm that's seen as adorning from a tall person is seen as creepy from a short person. What the girls don't realize (or maybe they do and just don't care) is that once a guy's labeled as "creepy" then that's endgame for him in that social group. Since women value social status, a guy being labeled by anyone as "creepy" pretty much lowers his social status to just below ac knowledgeable. After all, who would want to be seen with a guy that someone else thinks is creepy? After highschool, I started over in a new social circle where I had a fresh reputation, and all things were good for awhile, until that ONE girl found me unworthy of flirting with her and called me creepy. Once that happened, her word was law and I was pretty much ostracized by everyone at that point. It's almost as if us short guys just need to "learn our place" and "stay in it" in their eyes. Stepping out of line is like social suicide. It's almost as bad as the way black communities see a black person dating a white one and consider them "race traitors" but that's another story. To wrap things up, it's a damn bummer that being short means we get called creepy much more often than an average or taller statured one, leading to more social suicide.