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Post by Heightism Report on Jul 15, 2017 13:16:33 GMT
There's this muskrat-brained bitch on Twitter who has been on a 2-3 year heightism-denying tour. She writes a dating blog called "Alice In Wonderlust." This dumb cooz has had an ongoing argument with a few short guys who have called her out on her hypocrisy based on her dislike of short men, her denial that heightism exists, and the way she believes in the Napoleon Complex narrative even in statements where she is also denying the existence of heightism. Here's another log to add onto her flaming logic heap of hypocrisy. This is from an interview she did on another blog. 2peasinapodblog2.blogspot.co.uk/p/the-interview-series.html"I’m speaking on behalf of people who don’t have a voice." Yeah, she's really speaking on behalf of the voiceless by denigrating short men and denying that heightism is a real issue in society, especially when she makes heightist statements while simultaneously denying that heightism exists. |
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Post by toughlimbs on Jul 16, 2017 4:28:39 GMT
I didn't see anything heightist in the 7th interview.
Which interview are you speaking of? There are 7 of them, and I couldn't read all of them cuz... well, who wants to learn about those strangers?
An you share a link about her talking smack about short men?
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Post by Heightism Report on Jul 16, 2017 8:52:49 GMT
I didn't see anything heightist in the 7th interview. Which interview are you speaking of? There are 7 of them, and I couldn't read all of them cuz... well, who wants to learn about those strangers? An you share a link about her talking smack about short men? It's not in the interview. She has been arguing on Twitter with a guy named "Small But," myself, and maybe one or two others. I quoted the important part of the interview. If you want to find her smack talking, you can find it in her conversations on Twitter. She's the first interview, Alice Riley, and goes by the name Alice In Wonderlust |
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Post by toughlimbs on Jul 16, 2017 13:41:07 GMT
How can I see the replies on her posts in twitter? Drives me crazy to not know what the hell she said that would come off heightist. Found this comment in her article. "'You’re being too picky'. Along with 'your standards are too high', and all that. Or perhaps, 'Why are you so bothered about height? The guy doesn’t have to be taller!'- from your 5’3″ friend with the 6’3″ boyfriend." aliceinwonderlust.com/2017/07/12/5-things-you-know-if-youre-a-picky-dater/#comments"I get it. In the online world, more inches appears to equal more responses. And the women who are 5’1″ but 'don’t date anyone under 6’0"' aren’t helping the situation. So it’s understandable why guys bend the truth a little when it comes to their height. But as a tall girl, this is the bane of my dating life. If a guy says he’s 6’0″ then comes up to my shoulder, it’s just a massive waste of both our time. If you’re going to lie about your height, at least pick someone who’s still shorter than you so they might not notice your deceit!" aliceinwonderlust.com/2017/04/06/5-things-i-hate-about-dating/These comments from her don't really seem all that heightist to me. The last comment is the reason why we struggle. It's the short men that lie about their heights. This makes women think 5'0" is 5'6" cuz they're told by 5'0" guy that he's 5'6". It confuses the fuck outta these women. That's why they make ANY HEIGHT THAT STARTS WITH A 5 should be expelled out of their dating world. It's just easier for them to not deal with all this headache of deceits. I mean, really, this explains why women want six feet and THREE inch tall man. Height increasing shoes can go as high as three inches. Think about that. When you think about it, tall men probably lie about their heights by being two inches or more shorter than they actually are. This, again, confuses the fuck outta these women who are told what true stature is like. I even had to explain to my girlfriend as clearly and as crystal as possible on what TRUE height differences look like. I even had to take a picture of us, her in high heels and me without shoes on, side by side, then show her just how different our heights are in the picture (cuz she actually thought I was only an inch taller than her, but I'm 5 inches taller than her without shoes). That's how bad it is. To add insult to our injury, there are garmins that wear these elevator shoes. Because of this, women demand taller height so they won't be lied to again. Until they completely destroy elevator shoes, I give her a pass on this. When it comes to taller men, they can't wear "height decreasing" shoes to look shorter, but short men can look taller with these dumb shoes. It's so bad and so difficult for short men to not look bad like that. Can you please show me a link of her actually bashing against short men? |
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Post by Heightism Report on Jul 16, 2017 15:46:19 GMT
Quit arguing in favor of that bitch. I guarantee you she's as heightist as they come. I can't dig through my mentions right now, but there are numerous examples of her idiocy in my mentions and Small But's mentions from the past few years. You're just going to have to chill until I have time to dig them up if you aren't able to use Twitter well enough to do it on your own.
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Post by toughlimbs on Jul 16, 2017 21:30:17 GMT
Quit arguing in favor of that bitch. I guarantee you she's as heightist as they come. I can't dig through my mentions right now, but there are numerous examples of her idiocy in my mentions and Small But's mentions from the past few years. You're just going to have to chill until I have time to dig them up if you aren't able to use Twitter well enough to do it on your own. Ok. I'll chill. Just let me know once you find the time. I'm curious. |
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Post by Heightism Report on Jul 17, 2017 19:12:44 GMT
This is her reply to a conversation about how people would accuse Trump of having short man syndrome if he were short. As you can see, she is saying it's victim mentality to state that tall men get away with stuff that short men don't. I didn't say anything to or about her in the original tweet; She sought me out solely to make this accusation. She seems to focus on trying to stifle us from voicing our opinion. Like I said, she's been doing this same song and dance for a few years.
And here she is stating that I have a victim complex for pointing-out double standards about how tall guys can act like assholes and not get accused of having a complex.
And here she is saying that the existence of short women is proof that short men don't have issues in dating because they can just date short women.(BTW- The conversation wasn't even about dating, she just steered the conversation in that direction to have an easy way to dismiss our statements)
And now, women don't ever reject men based purely on their height, they only do so if something else is "wrong" with them. Once again, this conversation wasn't even about dating, she was just assuming that short guys who point-out double standards are just mad because they can't get laid
Those are all from one conversation. She has been on a two-three year heightism-denying crusade, and her conversations are full of this type of BS
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Post by Heightism Report on Jul 17, 2017 21:30:17 GMT
She also Retweeted this
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Post by Heightism Report on Jul 17, 2017 21:38:41 GMT
And here she is stating that society is totally ok with men disrespectfully rejecting fat women, thus, it's perfectly ok for her to be dismissive of short men.(This one even has the bonus of a taller who came by to white knight and flaunt his superiority simultaneously)
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Post by Heightism Report on Jul 17, 2017 21:41:41 GMT
And just as a bonus, think of all the things I've posted so far, and then ponder the fact that she Retweeted this
At this point, I don't think there's any doubt as to whether she's a hypocritical beotch.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 18, 2017 2:14:45 GMT
The hypocrisy of this woman is why people don't want to fight heightism, too many damn mental games. I think we do need to start calling out women for their beliefs such as alice, because society doing nothing but praising them makes them think every little opinion of theirs is special. Don't get me wrong people in general are entitled but women's white knights, constant societal cloak against criticism, and ability to settle down with a man means they never have to develop their critical thinking skills, so they of all people will believe in the napoleon complex, short guys being inferior because of the heel preference (not that important obviously), and it gives them a free pass on heightism and believing the stereotypes and not thinking for themselves, especially about a group that society gives them permission to bash.
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Post by Heightism Report on Jul 18, 2017 9:26:37 GMT
How can I see the replies on her posts in twitter? Drives me crazy to not know what the hell she said that would come off heightist. Found this comment in her article. "'You’re being too picky'. Along with 'your standards are too high', and all that. Or perhaps, 'Why are you so bothered about height? The guy doesn’t have to be taller!'- from your 5’3″ friend with the 6’3″ boyfriend." aliceinwonderlust.com/2017/07/12/5-things-you-know-if-youre-a-picky-dater/#comments"I get it. In the online world, more inches appears to equal more responses. And the women who are 5’1″ but 'don’t date anyone under 6’0"' aren’t helping the situation. So it’s understandable why guys bend the truth a little when it comes to their height. But as a tall girl, this is the bane of my dating life. If a guy says he’s 6’0″ then comes up to my shoulder, it’s just a massive waste of both our time. If you’re going to lie about your height, at least pick someone who’s still shorter than you so they might not notice your deceit!" aliceinwonderlust.com/2017/04/06/5-things-i-hate-about-dating/These comments from her don't really seem all that heightist to me. The last comment is the reason why we struggle. It's the short men that lie about their heights. This makes women think 5'0" is 5'6" cuz they're told by 5'0" guy that he's 5'6". It confuses the fuck outta these women. That's why they make ANY HEIGHT THAT STARTS WITH A 5 should be expelled out of their dating world. It's just easier for them to not deal with all this headache of deceits. I mean, really, this explains why women want six feet and THREE inch tall man. Height increasing shoes can go as high as three inches. Think about that. When you think about it, tall men probably lie about their heights by being two inches or more shorter than they actually are. This, again, confuses the fuck outta these women who are told what true stature is like. I even had to explain to my girlfriend as clearly and as crystal as possible on what TRUE height differences look like. I even had to take a picture of us, her in high heels and me without shoes on, side by side, then show her just how different our heights are in the picture (cuz she actually thought I was only an inch taller than her, but I'm 5 inches taller than her without shoes). That's how bad it is. To add insult to our injury, there are garmins that wear these elevator shoes. Because of this, women demand taller height so they won't be lied to again. Until they completely destroy elevator shoes, I give her a pass on this. When it comes to taller men, they can't wear "height decreasing" shoes to look shorter, but short men can look taller with these dumb shoes. It's so bad and so difficult for short men to not look bad like that. I Can you please show me a link of her actually bashing against short men? I'm extremely disappointed in this blame shifting post because it seriously sounds like something one of the delusional fuckdandies of r/short would come-up with. Seriously, this post is borderline white knighting. I don't care whether or not women know how to judge height properly, and I'm not concerned about what reason they are unable to judge height. The issue is the fact that they have a height obsession to begin with and their actions that stem from this obsession. Their actions aren't based out of confusion, they're based out of entitlement, superficiality, and negative beliefs that stem from a disdain for short men. If your girlfriend isn't intelligent enough to know you're more than an inch taller than her, maybe she needs to go back to elementary school and learn basic measurements. It doesn't follow logic to state that because other guys lie about their height that your girlfriend suddenly loses all ability to gauge the difference between one inch and five inches. If guys lying about their height has deprived your girlfriend of her ability to understand inches, does she also buy the wrong size clothes for herself? If a girl you've been dating tells you that you're shorter than you actually are, that's a tremendous red flag because women view height as a marker of social status, so I'd be very careful if I were you, especially since you've already told a story about how her eyes light up every time a tall man enters the room. What you're describing isn't a girl seeing a 5'6 guy and thinking he's 5'3, what you're describing is a girl losing her ability to gauge inches wholesale, which doesn't make sense, so she may very well see you as shorter than you are because she has assigned you the social status of a guy shorter than you are in actuality. Now, as far as Alice goes, you don't think her comments sound heightist? First, she said that heightism in dating is only an issue online, which is a basic heightism-denying argument. Then, she goes onto state her displeasure with not being able to find enough tall men by blaming short women for taking all of the "good" men, and then, she goes onto state that if a guy showed-up shorter than she expected, it would be a "massive waste of time." It's telling that it wouldn't just be a disappointment, but a "massive waste of time." I'd say that carries a connotation that goes a bit beyond mere preference. Short men have to be the only group of people who put-up with this level of dismissal, and not only put-up with it, but give a "pass" to those who make these statements. |
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Post by toughlimbs on Jul 18, 2017 16:15:16 GMT
I'll have to be careful around my gf at this point now. So far, she decreased interest in tall men. She hasn't even mentioned anything about tall men since I talked to her about heightism. Maybe she's seeing the big picture.
Thank you so much for clarifying these tricky comments from some women, and even posted clear pictures of proof of their comments. We both know that's a lot of work.
I see it now. Wow. Their comments are tricky as hell! They would steer the conversation into something else. That's why I like this site, it's a filter to keep us back to realize heightism.
Women like that are so good at making a man challenge himself in order to prove to himself and everyone around him that he's a respectable man rather than a "coward who runs away from protecting women." I dunno, it's just instinct I have. Maybe it's because I'm deaf, so I try to prove myself that I'm capable to protect someone, cuz I've often had my mom to defend me due to my hearing loss multiple times before. I just have the urge to return the favor to women sometimes. I don't see it as a bad thing, but I do have to be careful with who I'm defending. I want to defend the right person. I want to defend short men. Heightism is so important. Cannot loose that.
I wasn't intending to "white-knight" for her, I was just trying to be fair on both sides, and also trying to see where the real problem lies. Now I believe she's just being as heightist as hell. Like you said, she's good at denying heightism. A lot of women are very good liars, you know.
Maybe she's mad that no short men want her? She is a tall person herself. Maybe short women were talking smack about couples of short men with tall women. I dunno, just something is causing this. I mean, that one picture of Jay-Z against short men is telling. Look at the picture, that's a black person. Why not a tall white guy? There's always someone from the black community talking shit about short men. A lot of black women I've encountered have always been bigger than normal. I'm not defending them, I'm trying to catch the cause of heightism that kept going into a loop of denial. If we catch the cause, then it might get easier for us to bring more awareness to heightism. Maybe that's why a lot of short folks have been struggling with making heightism known since the 70's.
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