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Post by toughlimbs on Jun 3, 2017 13:41:43 GMT
Been dating my gf for over four years now. Since we've been dating, I have been noticing her still getting somehow turned on by taller men in the media. She's been watching a bunch of "romantic" bullshit movies since she was growing up, so now, I've had to put up her occasional adoration for tall men a few times they stand close by. She never talked to them, but she would often talk to me about them.
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Post by fjohnson on Jul 2, 2017 17:43:47 GMT
You need to move on. She will dump you at the first opportunity.
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Post by luro2020 on Jul 3, 2017 0:29:24 GMT
fjohnson, people can't just snap their fingers and move on from a relationship, there are emotional ties. Dating is arguably still a part of heightism, it's just that there are so many other facets than the dating world that it bleeds into. I would argue that since most women have a height preference, they are heightist, period. It might be a preference, but they still act on it enough for it to be bigotry.
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Post by Heightism Report on Jul 3, 2017 9:46:45 GMT
You have to be careful with that type of woman, toughlimbs. She already has a wandering eye based on a preference of hers that you will never meet, and it's to the point that it is visibly-noticable to you. With that being said, I agree with a combo of luro and fjohnson's comments because relationships have many moving parts, so it's up to you to gauge how much this preference of hers affects your future with her, and how much it affects your relationship as a whole, but on the same token, you know damned well how obsessed with tall men most women are. Personally, at this point in my life, if the same thing happened to me, I'd be working on an exit strategy because I'm not going to risk wasting time, energy, and emotion on someone when I have definitive proof that they see me as "incomplete." You're taking a risk by staying with her, so what you need to do, is to calculate whether that risk is worth it in the long-run.
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Post by fjohnson on Jul 3, 2017 20:56:04 GMT
luro
I never had any girl I had a successful relationship ever, and I mean ever, talk to me about my height. I had girl reject me, so no relationship. So to say that it is just a part of normal dating is BS. I know a lot of women, think this, but they remove themselves from your life. If some girl is showing heightist actions, you know the truth. And it is only a matter of time before you are replaced. Sugar coating it is not a solution.
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