Post by Heightism Report on Apr 6, 2017 21:39:20 GMT
They think they can get away with their hypocrisy, but that's not going to happen on my watch.
www.buzzfeed.com/natalyalobanova/ways-you-didnt-realise-youve-internalised-misogyny?utm_term=.gb6axk2wr#.nqKYg8b6J
23 Ways You May Have InternalisedMisogyny Heightism Without Even Realising
1.You’ve been shocked/appalled/offended to see body hair on other women, even though you damn well know you have it too.
You're shocked/appalled/offended when you see a short man, even though you know damn well that you're short yourself
2.You've felt embarrassed by stubble on your body or that you should apologise for it.
You've felt embarrassed by walking with a short man and felt that he should apologize for it
3.You've automatically felt sorry for women who are over 40 and single.
You automatically feel sorry for women who date short men
4.You've said “You’ll change your mind” to women who say they don’t want children, or thought that such a decision is selfish, but would not say the same to a man.
You've said "You'll change your mind" to women who have had feelings for a short man, but have never said the same thing to women who will ONLY date tall men
5.You've thought there is something wrong with you for not wanting or not liking children.
You've never thought something is wrong with you for openly hating short men or for idiotic silliness like refusing to date guys who aren't taller than you in heels
6.You've thought a woman in a heterosexual relationship is “lucky” if her partner does domestic work or looks after the children, but wouldn't think the same if the roles were reversed.
You've thought that any woman who is in a relationship with a tall man is lucky, even if he is abusive, but automatically think that all women who are in relationships with short men are unfortunate.
7.You've assumed something negative about a woman because she spends a lot of time or money on her appearance.
You assume negative things, such as "Napoleon Complex" or "overcompensation" about short men who spend a lot of time or money on their appearance
8.You've judged other women for not wearing makeup/not spending a lot of time or money on their appearance.
You also judge short men who don't spend time on their appearance by assuming they are just "a typical short loser" or that they lack confidence
9.You've taken pride in how much or how little time you spend on your grooming routine compared with others.
You've taken pride in how little an amount of time it takes you to reject short men.
10.You've equated being sexually dominant and/or promiscuous to “having sex like a man”.
You equate sexually-open tall men as "confident badboys" while equating short men who act the same way as "overcompensating creepers."
11.You've felt obligated to ensure a male partner climaxes during sex but you don’t demand or expect the same treatment from him, even though you really want it.
You've demanded that men respect your body and not hold you to Hollywood standards, while despising short men for not meeting the male version of the standards you are supposedly opposing
12.You've faked an orgasm while with a man because you didn't want to hurt his feelings or offend him.
You've faked a Tinder date with a short man just to get a free meal because you didn't have any tall men lined-up that evening
13.You've judged a woman for keeping her full-time job after she's had a child.
If you're a short woman, you've judged short men harshly even though you have a high-likelihood of having a short male child
14.You've judged a woman for not keeping her job after she's had a child.
You also judge short men for reproducing because you believe short men are inferior, while simultaneously talking about how you "Stand with girls" because you hate the notion of people believing women are inferior
15.You've felt embarrassed when talking about your period, or even buying sanitary items.
You think short men who talk about heightism should feel embarrassed, while simultaneously sharing dozens of Jezebel articles about women having their voices heard.
16.You've thought “you’re not like other girls” was a compliment.
You've paid a short guy a condescending "You may be short, but your personality is tall" compliment
17.You've been immediately threatened by another woman because you felt she was prettier than you, or you felt quietly assured because she wasn't as pretty as you.
You've felt extremely jealous because another woman has a boyfriend who is taller than yours or felt quietly superior because your boyfriend is taller
18.You've judged other women for their sex life.
A substantial reason that you hate short men is because their sexual market value is low
19.You’ve immediately assumed a woman was in a lower-ranked position than she is.
You always assume that a short guy is unsuccessful, and when a short guy is successful, you write his success off as being the result of "overcompensation."
20.You've thought that you “just get along better with guys” because girls are “too bitchy”.
You think short guys should accept people degrading them because if they defend themselves "they'll just come-off as insecure."
21.You've assumed that the fashion or beauty industries are more frivolous than other industries.
You've assumed that short men's concerns are more frivolous than the concerns of other groups
www.buzzfeed.com/natalyalobanova/ways-you-didnt-realise-youve-internalised-misogyny?utm_term=.gb6axk2wr#.nqKYg8b6J
23 Ways You May Have Internalised
1.
You're shocked/appalled/offended when you see a short man, even though you know damn well that you're short yourself
2.
You've felt embarrassed by walking with a short man and felt that he should apologize for it
3.
You automatically feel sorry for women who date short men
4.
You've said "You'll change your mind" to women who have had feelings for a short man, but have never said the same thing to women who will ONLY date tall men
5.
You've never thought something is wrong with you for openly hating short men or for idiotic silliness like refusing to date guys who aren't taller than you in heels
6.
You've thought that any woman who is in a relationship with a tall man is lucky, even if he is abusive, but automatically think that all women who are in relationships with short men are unfortunate.
7.
You assume negative things, such as "Napoleon Complex" or "overcompensation" about short men who spend a lot of time or money on their appearance
8.
You also judge short men who don't spend time on their appearance by assuming they are just "a typical short loser" or that they lack confidence
9.
You've taken pride in how little an amount of time it takes you to reject short men.
10.
You equate sexually-open tall men as "confident badboys" while equating short men who act the same way as "overcompensating creepers."
11.
You've demanded that men respect your body and not hold you to Hollywood standards, while despising short men for not meeting the male version of the standards you are supposedly opposing
12.
You've faked a Tinder date with a short man just to get a free meal because you didn't have any tall men lined-up that evening
13.
If you're a short woman, you've judged short men harshly even though you have a high-likelihood of having a short male child
14.
You also judge short men for reproducing because you believe short men are inferior, while simultaneously talking about how you "Stand with girls" because you hate the notion of people believing women are inferior
15.
You think short men who talk about heightism should feel embarrassed, while simultaneously sharing dozens of Jezebel articles about women having their voices heard.
16.
You've paid a short guy a condescending "You may be short, but your personality is tall" compliment
17.
You've felt extremely jealous because another woman has a boyfriend who is taller than yours or felt quietly superior because your boyfriend is taller
18.
A substantial reason that you hate short men is because their sexual market value is low
19.
You always assume that a short guy is unsuccessful, and when a short guy is successful, you write his success off as being the result of "overcompensation."
20.
You think short guys should accept people degrading them because if they defend themselves "they'll just come-off as insecure."
21.
You've assumed that short men's concerns are more frivolous than the concerns of other groups