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Post by Deleted on Sept 21, 2019 20:23:16 GMT
From many interactions with men over 6 feet, an observation i've made is that they are the ones who care about height and are much more bothered by being labeled as a number shorter than their real height, not short/ average heighted people. As the first example, when I didn't know about heightism, I talked to a man who was probably 6'4" or 5 and when I said he was 6'3" he had to declare that he "was not 6'3" in an annoyed tone. In another instance, someone jokingly called a 6'2" ish guy "short" and said "you're so short" and the guy got very defensive and said semi-seriously "I'm not short, I'm taller than you!Oh wait, you were joking.." , and it's obvious that even a harmless joke about how "short" he was made him have a mini temper tantrum. As the final example, another time when height came up someone else called a proclaimed 6'2" man "6'1" and he almost interrupted them to correct them only a second after him being downgraded.
All these instances show me that tall men are so sensitive about their height that they can't even take a joke about them being short and will quickly correct you/ get hostile if you suggest they are shorter than they are or not tall. No one would ever label a 6'0",1, or 2" short or even average but they seem to be the ones who are the most sensitive about being regarded as short, even though 6'0"-6'2" men will never be thought of that way, clearly not by any stretch of the imagination. How are we the ones who "are too sensitive about our height" when they can't even take being called short as a one- liner joke or being thought of as 1-2 inches shorter without having micro temper tantrums?
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Post by Heightism Report on Oct 3, 2019 20:27:18 GMT
There are even tall men who wear shoe lifts because they fear that they won't be the tallest person in the room
https://www.reddit.com/r/tall/comments/7bvada/wearing_lifts/
https://www.reddit.com/r/tall/comments/50pniv/my_65_friend_who_uses_shoe_lifts_asked_me_to_use/
If short men are considered insecure for wearing lifts, imagine the hurricane of insecurity that is swirling through any tall man who artifically alters his height because he throws an absolute tantrum every time someone is taller than he is. However, people tend to focus on short men who wear lifts because by trying to appear taller, they are trying to poach respect and prestige that only tall men "deserve" to cash in on. It's quite a ridiculous state of affairs.
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Post by HeightismAOS on Oct 6, 2019 15:27:37 GMT
On this note, many of the negative stereotypes about short men are projections from taller men. When a really tall male runs into an even taller guy, it might make the shorter of the two uneasy, because he's used to being the tallest guy in the room. He then thinks, "Man, short men must feel like this 24/7!" This ignores how short men are usually shorter than other men. It's like living in a place with many racial minorities, versus very few. The latter might bat an eye when seeing someone different, but the former is used to it because it's an everyday occurence.
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